Wednesday, November 23, 2005

Healing Dreams

New Worlds Issue: NW051
By: Christopher Penczak
In the holistic world of the mind-body-spirit connection, we still tend to focus on the body in our healing practice. Body work, yoga, herbs and even crystals are physical therapies. They require action. If we don’t work with them, we don’t receive the benefits. Action is an important part of the healing process, but there is a whole other aspect of healing that goes on beneath the surface. Healing can occur in the seemingly unconscious parts of our life — in our dream life. Dreams are magical things. They give us glimpses, usually unbidden, into our past, present and future. They reflect our hopes, desires and fears. They reveal mysteries, give lessons and grant us messages from our highest guidance. The only problem is that we are not always versed in the healing work of dreams.From a psychological perspective, dreams are a place where the various parts of our psyche explore ideas, work out issues and interact with each other. Much of our modern dream lore from the psychological perspective has come to us through both Freud and Jung. Though related, both men had different views on the human mind and its processes. Many in the psychological field hold that dreams are simply internal and although they may provide interesting insights to the individual, they are not as important as objective reality. Many shrug off a nightmare with the phrase, “it was just a dream.” You’ll find that in the world of the healer, shaman, witch and magician, dreams are simply another view on reality. To a shamanic practitioner, a tribal healer who works with the spirits, all of reality is a dream. The physical waking world is a group dream, a “big dream” that we all dream and manifest together. That’s why it can take so long for our thoughts to materialize in our everyday collective reality. The dream is denser and our intentions take time to manifest. The science of quantum physics and a holographic universe theory back up what mystics have been saying for a long time. Reality is a dream-like illusion made of light and energy. It is solid because we perceive it to be solid, but it is really energy. The Hindu traditions call the world the Maya, the illusion, for we think we are all separate, but the truth is that we are all energy, all connected in a greater pattern. Our personal dreams are like our own little personal universes of light and energy, where our thoughts can manifest nearly instantaneously. Some think of the dream world as synonymous with the spirit realms and astral plane, where we can interface and communicate with beings from a non-ordinary reality. Many people dream of loved ones who have passed, giving them profound messages of healing and insight. Those involved in the New Age believe that many people who do not consciously work with spirit guides and angels do so during their dream time. To the mystic, dream life is just as powerful and vital as the waking life, simply different. Both have lessons to teach and experiences to have. Some researchers believe that we only sleep in order to dream. We experience states of REM, or Rapid Eye Movement sleep, and NREM, Non-REM sleep. NREM is a quiet, deeper sleep, while REM is associated with movement and twitching. Those woken during REM sleep report they are dreaming. In laboratory studies, those who not allowed to have REM sleep, meaning they did not experience dreams, experienced a loss of health and well-being. Dreaming gives our consciousness some vital component. Without it, we begin to be irritable, unfocused and eventually can lose our grasp on reality. Dreams are essential to our health and well-being on many levels. The wonderful thing about dreams is that we all have them, but we all have different experience and beliefs surrounding them. You don’t have to belong to any one group, or school of thinking to work with your dream. If you are more comfortable with the psychological models of dreaming, then follow them and I’m certain you can get therapeutic, healing results. If you follow a more mystical path, dream magic can be very rewarding. But any dream work involves becoming more conscious of your dreaming life. Dream Analysis On a purely physical level, the dream state helps us maintain health and balance. On a more in-depth psychological level, dreams can be very therapeutic. If we work with them, dreams grant insights into our own mind — the way we think, the way we handle problems and the way we interact with ourselves and other people. Like a well-crafted play, the storyline in a dream can give us a moral or lesson. If someone just tells us the lesson, we don’t hear it. But if it is presented in a way that we must think about it, then the message takes root and healing can occur. Your dream state is like a good friend, telling you a story to point out a need for change. Unfortunately the story is not always that simple. Our recall can be scattered, or the symbolism can be complex to our waking mind. We need tools to help us analyze the dream. Wise ones from times past, from the cunning woman to the shaman, were versed in dream interpretation. That role is now taken by the counselor, psychologist or minister. Having a person outside of your day-to-day life, as an objective sound board, can be instrumental in understanding your dreams. Such people are hopefully versed in mythic symbolism, what many refer to as archetypes, and know how the archetypes play out in our life. They can identify these images in your dream, and help you apply them to your situation. A great tool for self dream analysis, or when working with a counselor, is to keep a dream journal for at least a month. I prefer to start my dream journal cycle from New Moon to New Moon. Keep a notebook by your bed, and write the first thing you remember when you wake up. If you wake during the night, write down whatever you remember. Even if you remember nothing, write, “nothing.” This will get you in the habit of writing down the first thoughts of the waking period. Even if it’s messy, you will find you remember more and more as you train yourself. You can always recopy it later. If you really dislike early morning writing, have a tape recorder by the bedside and then transcribe your tape into your journal. When analyzing, individual dreams might not be clear, but look for patterns over the monthly cycle. Does anything stick out? You might have strong male or female figures, mythic imagery or mundane situations that repeat in some way. Themes that repeat give you insight into deeper issues.Prophetic Dreams Beyond the psychological interpretation of dreams, mystics feel that dreams can be prophetic in nature, giving the dreamer clues as to what will come to pass. Like most systems of prophecy or divination, the message isn’t always clear or exact. And almost always, it’s open to interpretation. Some would argue that these are purely psychological manifestations, your unconscious mind making leaps in logic with the information you currently have, to draw the most likely conclusion. Others think that true psychic ability is more easily accessed while the conscious mind, with all its doubts, is quieted during sleep. But since this ability is coming through the dream states, it is much more symbolic and open to interpretation than most people would like it to be. Personally I think both things occur during prophetic dreams. Often prophetic dreams seem to be portents of doom, but in reality they are warnings. Sometimes they are not necessarily psychic flashes, but our own consciousness warning us about potential paths and urging us to follow other ways. Based on mystical symbolism, systems of prophetic meaning have been created. Dreams of certain types of people, objects and colors each have a divinatory meaning, but the meanings are different, depending on the culture or system. An auspicious symbol in one culture can spell a misfortune in another. People often worry about whether their dreams are just “regular” dreams or prophetic dreams. My best advice is to really learn from your dreams and if there is a message or warning, see if it applies to you. Don’t let your dreams completely rule your life, but if there is some good advice coming through your dreams, definitely take it. It doesn’t matter if it’s an answer coming out through introspection or a deep psychic flash. Good advice is good advice regardless of the source. Dream Dictionaries Dream interpretation books also work with the symbolic images and archetypes of both psychology and prophecy. These books can be a good starting point, but no one resource will have all the answers for you. You must see what resonates with you and strikes a cord in your consciousness. We have three layers of symbolism to work with, in any analysis situation. We have universal archetypal images that seem to transcend culture or a specific time period. Other images are dependent upon a culture or point of view. Give the image of stars, crosses, animals and tridents to a Wiccan Priestess, and then to a Baptist Minister, and you will get two different dream meanings. Each can be valid, but it will depend on the dreamer’s cultural experience too. Lastly, we have purely personal symbols that most people are not aware of. Most color books associated yellow with sunshine and happiness, so if you dream with the color yellow prominent, then you would have those associations. But one person might have a bad experience with the color yellow, perhaps the yellow swing set collapsed on him as child. Then personally, even if it is unconscious, yellow would not mean happiness and joy. Sometimes an outside resource is helpful. Different authors can give different perspectives. Researching several different books can give you a good start in interpreting your dreams.

I was not taught that dreams have to be interpreted or that they are hard to figure out. Personally I think this person makes it harder then it has to be. Other then that he does make some good points.

Sunday, November 20, 2005

Lucid Dreaming, wow what a concept.

But after several nights in one week of one particular nightmare something totally outragious happened.

The dream:

I was being chased by a very big bad nasty that got disturbed when I was first starting my pagan walk. It kept chasing me all over and through everything and nothing I did day or night stopped it. I was going bugshit 'cause I had no one to talk with about this.

Then one night I ended up running through a train, the first time I ran through this one car and woke up. I went back to sleep just to go through all the running to end up in this one car on the train that I had just run through not long before, but this time it was different. I was starting to run past this one man and his friends when he stood up and stopped me.
Now this guy was some where in his late 20's and had 3 or 4 young people closer to my age with him. I was 16 at the time. When he stepped in front of me he put his hand on my shoulder and asked me what was wrong, I couldn't run past him the way I wanted and I couldn't get out the words to tell him what was happening. He told me to slow down, yes I see the thing behind you, but running isn't going to help. You must change this dream.
I'm sure I looked surprised after all how can a person change a dream? It's not like a physical reality where I could change things...was it?
I know he saw the confusion on my face and told me it's your dream you can do what ever you want here.
He told me now watch this is my part of this dream and he changed the red leather seats to a plaid cloth covering. The others had been sitting and suddenly they were standing up around him and me. I woke up at that point and then through out the next week they showed me how even the little changes in the surroundings of my dream can change the whole dynamics of the dream. With this knowledge the last time I ran through the car of the train they stayed seated and he looked at me, nodded and I turned and faced the creature. I told it this is my dream you are not welcome here, took away it's teeth and it disappeared never to return.
Since that time there have been no more nightmares that to bother me.

Saturday, November 05, 2005

Some new steps

One of my pagan friends from the news boards and I were talking last Saturday night and he had read what I wrote about being Were-beast and he "read" me and this is what came of some of the talk.

Your issue is Knowing
gryphonelder: Yeah
You Feel that because your internal spirit is of this polarity you must do this
gryphonelder: To me it feels like I am being called to do this.
you deny your personality and try to force it itno what you see the archetype of the "Spirit" is and that is wrong
you are not two beings
gryphonelder: My personality tends to get me into trouble
You are not the Great Cat
The Great Cat is You
gryphonelder: I have had the two spirit dream though ... True
gryphonelder: So be the Cat. Hhhmmm
allow you to come forth, allow the great cat to manifest itself as it will thru you
no be YOU
The cat will answer
gryphonelder: :-? (rubing chin thinking)
IT will give YOU the instruction, It will tell YOU how to act but YOU have the say so, it is Primal, Humans aren't. It's fine to be aggressive but it isn't to be violent, when something you personally prey upon(a new job position for example) the cat will tell you when to strike
Don't allow it to force you to react
Hold yourself in reserve, listen to the advice and reason
The thing about being a Were is not to let it overwhelm your humanity
gryphonelder: This is a lot to think on and learn to do.
gryphonelder: I know I was talking with someone about that earlier today.
You are Human, the weakest but Highest on the food chain. You have to learn how to prove it. there are times to let the cat free and times to chain it.
gryphonelder: The only time in the past that I have let it free is when I am hunting someone/thing that needs to quit hurting inocents.
Learn to Listen to the instincts but apply reason to them
Protecting innocents is different only to a smaller degree, REMAIN WITHIN THE LAW You have no defense if you stray outside.
gryphonelder: I know and I am very careful about that
Alow the cat to stalk evidence that you seek, ferret out those who saw...........
It ain't easy
gryphonelder: No, but I'm finding the best things in my life aren't the easy things

So now to find the way to put me and the big cat on the same page. This could prove to be interesting.
I was asked by one of my nieces if with my temper this could be done safely. My answer was/ is if I do it slow enough that the cat and I can blend quite well.
Sitting here now thinking about the times I have the most trouble with my depression, I don't think the big cat was out to play. I think that was when I was trying to be so "normal", but I'm not normal in many ways because there really is no such animal as "normal".
So now I will be working on blending me.